Wow, I can't believe I haven't used this since February haha.. I just found that funny, in the post in February, I said I was going to pick it up and start blogging all the time again, and here it is September haha..
So as you can imagine alot has happened since February.. My hours at work have picked back up... and as I was reading past posts I realized how terrible work was back then compared to now.. I can honestly say as of right now, everyone at work is getting along... Once again it is very nice to go into work and see all the smiling faces again! It reminds me of how it used to be way back when everything was awesome.. This probably seems odd to people who don't work in the retail world.. If you did, you'd probably understand more about the drama, and how hard it is to work in such a closed space with people you are arguing with... So I'm happy to say it's now over, and everyone is getting along fabulously =).. I will try not to say that too loud though haha... I don't want to jinx the Starbucks family!
Let's see.. My ex boyfriend is now married, and he has a kid apparently... which was a little shocking.. As well as hard to handle being as we've only been broken up for a little over a year, and out comes this girl with his child... Such is life.. I've been sad, and I've laughed about it.. I thought it would have taken 10 years to get over this one guy who I can honestly say I truly loved.. But... as I sit here and think and write about it... I'm over him.. and it feels great.. I do wish him all the luck in the world though.. If that girl was his true soul-mate then I can honestly say, I was happy to have met him on the way!
So now that that's all over with let's get on with the reason for this blog post..
So I've been single for well over a year... and I've known this one guy in particular for probably roughly 9 or 10 months.... when I first met him, he was really cocky... not the good cocky the obnoxious kind of cocky, there is a difference... Anyways... I stopped talking to him because, well I'm not even going to sugar coat this, he seemed rude, as well as a little needy.. So we stopped talking for probably 6 or 7 months.. I recently took a trip up to Monte Sano with a couple of people, and we hiked... and I ran into him... We hung out for about an hour... and it seemed to go fairly well.. He then gets into a relationship and I of course back off.. They end up breaking up, and I invite him out with me and a few close friends for some drinks on a Friday night... As to my surprise he actually shows up! So we're drinking and talking, and I'm like wow.. this guy has really changed! There might be something there now! Yeah, right... So we start talking daily.. which was alright for the most part.. Then I notice a lack in conversation, and more texts that I was sending, and more one word answers he was sending back... So I call up one of my dearest friends, and we decide that since I'm a girl, and I know girls, and he's a guy so he obviously knows guys, that we would be unstoppable in the dating world! Riiiiight!
So he and I were supposed to hang out on Wednesday night, but he told me he couldn't get a sitter.. So I was like alright... I didn't want him to know I was bummed out... So I turned to my guy friend for advice.. and he told me just to tell him that I was going out... So I did... He asked where, and I said I don't know yet.. probably downtown.. In the midst of all of this.. I'm actually just coming home and going to sleep.. I turned my ringer off as to not be disturbed, and I didn't really expect to hear anything else from him... As to my surprise he texted me 19 times.. Mind you.. he never told me he got a sitter and he wanted to hang out... Had I known that, I probably would had just went out with him... Instead of coming home and going to bed..
The next day he is so irate, he won't even talk to me.. he said he doesn't deal with girls who play games.. I was like what?? Me play games?? I don't even know how to play games! I don't know who's right or wrong in this situation, I mean I will take some fall for making my life seem so much more interesting than just coming home and sleeping.. but GAMES??? I think it should take a lot more than missed texts to make someone so mad.. I don't have drama in my life and I like it that way.. If you're looking for a girl that has a lot of drama in their life, or a lot of baggage, that's not me. End of story. I learned a VALUABLE lesson here.. If someone acts like a jerk when you first meet them.. 9 chances out of 10 they're always going to be a jerk.. Just keep moving.. Don't waste your valuable time on people who obviously have emotional issues!
Now.. I know my life might not be as interesting as people who party all the time.. But I'm happy and content.. I don't have any baggage, and I don't have any drama.. If you ask me... That's living a pretty good life =)
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